Necessary pre-fuck conversations (or ‘how to fuck someone with vaginismus’)
This week we are excited to welcome back Quinn Rhodes (Ze/hir/he/him) with the second in a two part series of posts about vaginismus. This time ze is talking about the conversations you should have with someone with vaginismus before you fuck them or as ze says in the title, how to fuck someone with vaginismus. […]
Vaginismus: sex is not supposed to hurt
This week we are delighted to welcome back Quinn Rhodes with the first in a two part series of posts about vaginismus “Just relax and think about something else.” “Have some wine!” “It’s normal for it to hurt the first time he fucks you.” These are all things that women and afab people* are told […]
Gender glossary 102: An intro to gender identities
This post, about terminology used to talk about gender and trans folks, is part 2 in our introduction of some of the most common trans and non-binary gender identities both of them written for us by the fabulous blogger Quinn Rhodes. (ze/hir). If you missed part one then check that out too: Gender glossary 101: […]
Gender glossary 101: An intro to trans terminology
As two cis people we have not always fully understood the language that surrounds gender and the transgender and non-binary communities. We have tried to educate ourselves by talking to people and reading around the subject but we know for many cis people it can feel a bit daunting so we thought we would try […]
Not My Suitcase of Sex Toys by Quinn Rhodes
We are delighted to host another piece of deliciously sexy erotica on our blog. This time we are welcoming Quinn Rhodes to our site with her story of summer holidays and swapped suitcases. *** Not every summer holiday features golden sands and turquoise seas. Sometimes it’s about booking a last-minute flight north, and a brand-new […]