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7 Tips on How to Get Your Partner to Squirt

Ejaculation is usually associated with one of two things: a male penis or a racy porn scene. It’s time to break the stereotype and talk about vulva-owners and their wonderful ejaculating orifice! Don’t worry – female ejaculate, squirt, is not urine, entirely. Although still unclear, female ejaculate fluid has been demonstrated to contain urine, and […]

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Consent is Sexy (and Necessary)

Did you know that 30th November is International Day of Consent? Of course, as a sex writer and educator I believe that EVERY day should be International Day of Consent! But just what is this consent thing all about anyway – and why is it so important that we talk about it? What is Consent? […]

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5 ways to use butt plugs to spice things up

Do you have a butt plug but are short on ideas of how to use it? Well we have some suggestions for how you can use butt plugs to spice up your sex life. Everyone has a bum and whilst we acknowledge that anal play is not for everyone, either because of health issues (although […]

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Ask A Stupid Question

We have all done it; wanted to ask a question but haven’t because in our head the question sounds so fucking stupid and so we were embarrassed to ask it out loud. If you’re like us, you then go somewhere quiet and google your ‘stupid question’ to find a million search results none of which […]

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Liberator Wedge Sex Furniture and how to use it

Sex Furniture: How To Use The Liberator Wedge

If you have ever though ‘I’d love some sex furniture’ then today is your luck day! Today we talking about how to use the Liberator Wedge; a foam wedge essentially that’s going to change your sex game! The Wedge Packaging Before we talk about the wedge from Liberator we have to talk about the packaging. […]

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BREAKING THE CHAINS OF SEXUAL SHAME

Sexual shame is a hugely common issue for many people. We live in a society that sends shaming messages about bodies and sex constantly so when Violet Grey offered to write us a piece about it including ways in which we can challenge that shame we knew we had to take her up on the […]

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Top 10 Most Searched for Kinks and Fetishes

So you have all been lock up in your homes for a significant portion of the year. People have been gardening, reading books, even writing books, decorating their homes, sewing and crafting and searching the internet for all sorts of porn. Wait what? Yes that is right, we don’t need to shy about it. Whilst […]

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Sex Body Image and Breast Cancer

Sex, body image and breast cancer

This week we are delighted to welcome Julie from Master’s Pleasing Bitch to our blog to talk about the impact of breast cancer on her sex life and body image. This post contains frank talk about breast cancer diagnosis and treatment including mastectomy surgery In 2017 breast cancer accounted for 15% of new cancer cases […]

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Staying Comecteded Though Sex After Kids by Alice Queen

Staying Connected Through Sex After Having Kids

Everyone who is or has been a parent knows that bringing children into a relationship has a huge impact on lots of things but it can really have an impact on your sexy life. In this piece Alice Queen of Vanilla is the New Kink talks about the ways in which her and her partner […]

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