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Gender glossary 102: An intro to gender identities

This post, about terminology used to talk about gender and trans folks, is part 2 in our introduction of some of the most common trans and non-binary gender identities both of them written for us by the fabulous blogger Quinn Rhodes. (ze/hir). If you missed part one then check that out too: Gender glossary 101: […]

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Gender glossary 101: An intro to trans terminology

As two cis people we have not always fully understood the language that surrounds gender and the transgender and non-binary communities. We have tried to educate ourselves by talking to people and reading around the subject but we know for many cis people it can feel a bit daunting so we thought we would try […]

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An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Darkness at Bay

There is a strong lonk between depression and lack of libido. In this fabulous piece by Tabitha Rayne she talks about how prescribing herself an orgasm a day and giving herself time to focus on her sexual self had a positive impact on both her mental health and libido. At one point my OCD was […]

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Sex, Lies and Social Distancing by Amy Norton

Has the currently social distancing situation fired up your sex drive or maybe it acted like an unwelcome and very unpleasant cold shower? If so, then be assured you are absolutely not alone. As Amy explains in this piece experiencing low libido is a completely normal reaction to this challenging time. I’m a sex blogger, […]

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Why We Should Embrace Furries The Furry Community

Furries can be a kinky bunch, so I decided to introduce them to you today, if you don’t know about them already. For the uninitiated, a furry is a person who imagines themselves or others as anthropomorphic animals – that’s half animal, half human to you and me. Most furries started on this path by […]

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Five Meaningful Ways to Celebrate LGBTQ History Month

February is LGBTQ history month, dedicated to celebrating the history, achievements and diversity of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer community, as well as raising awareness of issues still impacting queer people and campaigning for change. LGBTQ History Month was introduced in the UK in 2005, in the wake of the abolition of Section […]

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The Value of Visibility

International Trans Day of Visibility is an annual event, that takes place on March 31st each year. The day aims to celebrate the lives and achievements of trans people, to amplify voices from the trans community, and to spread knowledge about the trans community. TDOV events can take the form of outreach on social media, […]

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SilverDom OffBeat Review

Who Am I? An excellent question to ask on the first ‘normal’ Monday morning after the Christmas/New Year holiday! I am SilverdomUK, a 58 year old pansexual CIS white male. I am also physically disabled. I mention that because it is relevant to this review. I am husband and SadoDom to SilverdropUK, a 46 year […]

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Work it – Erotic Fiction by Scanderella

We are delighted to welcome Ella Scandal back to our blog with a delicious bit of fiction for Wankuary! *** Toby is working out. Right here in the front room. His yoga mat is on the carpet, his dumbbells are in his hands, and his eyes are fixed on the trainer on the TV screen. […]

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A lifetime of wanking

I have a long history of wanking under my belt, so to speak. I started noticing that touching myself felt good at a young age, and since I am an older gentleman I didn’t have the advantage of the internet to help satisfy my sexual curiosity. So like many other young men I found my […]

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