Prostate Orgasms: Answers to the Most Asked Questions About Anal Play

I’m often asked, quietly, almost like a secret, “Is anal really that good?” My answer? A simple nod and a “yes, it is.” And that’s when the floodgates open. Once the first question’s out, the rest follow: about the prostate, how it works, what it feels like, and how to even start.

That’s why I put this post together. Think of it as the conversation you’d have with a mate who’s already been there, but one you can bookmark, come back to, and read in the privacy of your own home. No judgement. Just real talk about pleasure.

TL;DR (for when you’re short on time)

If you’re in a rush, here’s the quick and dirty:

• The prostate is a walnut-sized gland, often called the male G-spot.
• It produces fluid that makes up part of semen.
• A prostate orgasm is like a regular one but amplified, deeper, fuller, and more intense.
• You can find it about 1–2 inches in, curling your finger toward your tummy.
• Lube up, go slow, and take your time, the build makes the release worth it.

1. What is the prostate?

It’s a walnut-sized gland between your bladder and penis. Some call it the P-spot, others the male G-spot. Either way, it’s a prime pleasure zone worth exploring.

2. What does the prostate actually do?

The prostate produces fluid that mixes with sperm when you ejaculate. Think of it as a natural lube and energy drink for sperm, helping them along on their journey.

3. What is a prostate orgasm like?

Imagine your regular orgasm, but more. More intense, more full-body, more “holy sh*t, what was that?” For me, it’s like a mix of stars exploding behind your eyes and waves rolling through your body. And yes, you’ll probably notice more semen too.

4. How do you find the prostate?

The simplest way: a finger up the bum.

• About 1–2 inches in.
• Curl your finger toward your stomach.
• It feels soft and squishy, about the size of a walnut.

When I’m on my own, I find it easier and more enjoyable with toys. They give a fuller, more all-over sensation that feels less targeted but really satisfying. With my partner though, I love when she uses her fingers. That gives me a different kind of stimulation, more precise, more direct, like she’s zeroing in on exactly the right spot.

5. Why is a prostate orgasm so good?

The truth is, it’s almost impossible to put into words. The sensation is so different from a “regular” orgasm that any description only gets you part of the way there. It’s deeper, fuller, and can wash through your whole body in waves. Some people call it intense, others say it feels otherworldly, but the reality is it’s something you have to experience to fully appreciate.

If you haven’t and you’re curious about trying, my best advice is:

• Use lube, and lots of it.
• Go slow, trust me, it’s always better when you take your time.
• The build-up is part of the pleasure, and patience makes the release feel even more mind-blowing.

Got Questions?

Got something on your mind we haven’t covered? Drop us a message. If you’re wondering, chances are someone else is too, so we’ll update the blog to share the answer with everyone.

Ready to Explore?

If you’re curious about prostate play and want to try it for yourself, the right toy makes a world of difference. Here are some of my go-to recommendations:

Our Toys (handmade at Godemiche)

• Morpheus – curved, smooth, and designed to hit the prostate just right.
• The Peg – slim, precise, and a great intro toy for finding your spot.
• Butt Plug – simple, effective, and perfect for building comfort with anal play.

Other Toys We Like

• Aneros Helix Syn Trident – a classic name in prostate toys, great for hands-free exploration.
• Nexus Revo – rotating head for consistent, targeted prostate stimulation.
• Fun Factory Bootie – small, comfortable, and a brilliant beginner’s plug.

Whether you start with fingers, one of our handmade dildos, or a toy we recommend from another brand, the important thing is taking it slow, using plenty of lube, and finding what feels good for you.