Lilly
The Lilly – Strap-Down Wand-Powered Insertable Grinder
The Lilly is a strap-down, wand-powered insertable grinder designed for people who want more than surface stimulation.
It combines deep vibration with internal fullness and a textured grinding surface you control. Strap it to a pillow, cushion, chair or partner’s thigh and you’ve got a stable base to grind against , while the insertable adds that grounded, delicious pressure underneath.
Pair it with your compatible body wand and Lilly transfers strong, resonant vibration through the entire toy. You’re in charge. Sit still and let it build. Grind harder and layer the sensation. Slow. Deep. Intense. However you like it.
Real sex. Real bodies. Real control.
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▶ KEY FEATURES
- Insertable + grinder design → Internal and external stimulation together
- Wand-powered → Deep, strong vibration that travels through the whole toy
- Strap-down stability → Firm base for confident, controlled grinding
- Body-led movement → You choose rhythm, pressure and pace
- Textured surface → Extra sensation with every rock and roll
Because good sex should feel intentional, not accidental.
▶ WHAT IT FEELS LIKE
- A feeling of fullness beneath steady vibration
- Deep, resonant waves that travel through both the surface and insertable
- Layered stimulation when you grind, rock or roll your hips
- Pressure that builds slowly… or quickly… depending on how you move
- A more immersive experience because everything responds together
It’s not just vibration. It’s vibration plus movement plus pressure.
You’re not just using it, you’re riding it.
▶ SIMPLE HOW TO USE
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Secure Lilly to a pillow, cushion, chair or partner’s thigh using the included straps. Make sure it feels firm and stable.
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Apply water-based lubricant to the grinding surface, the insertable and yourself.
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Insert your compatible body wand into the bowl-shaped cup at the top. Seat it securely.
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Straddle the grinder and guide the insertable into a comfortable position. Lower yourself at your own pace.
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Turn the wand on at a low setting first. Adjust intensity as your body warms up.
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Grind. Rock. Roll. Bounce. Stay still. Explore what feels best.
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After use, wash with warm soapy water or toy cleaner. Store in a lint-free bag away from direct sunlight.
No pressure. No “right way.” Just your pace, your pleasure.
▶ HOW PEOPLE USE
- Strapped to a pillow for hands-free internal + external stimulation
- Attached to a chair for upright depth and pressure control
- Secured to a partner’s thigh for shared rhythm and movement
- Used on low vibration for slow, steady build-up
- Paired with stronger settings and active grinding for intense blended stimulation
▶ WHO THIS DESIGN WORKS BEST FOR
Works Best For
- People who enjoy blended internal and external stimulation
- Users who love strong, deep vibration
- Those who prefer grinding rather than thrusting
- Anyone who enjoys feeling fullness during external stimulation
Also Good For
- Users exploring insertable grinders for the first time
- Those who want hands-free stability
- People who already own a compatible body wand
Not Ideal For
- Anyone who does not enjoy vibration
- Users looking for a purely manual, non-vibrating grinder
- Those who prefer thrusting-style toys
▶ SIZE GUIDE
| Measurement | Size |
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| Base Length | 19.6 cm / 7.7 in |
| Base Width | 11.4 cm / 4.5 in |
| Insertable Length (usable) | 11.5 cm / 4.5 in |
| Diameter (at the tip) | 2.2 cm / 0.9 in |
| Circumference (at the tip) | 6.9 cm / 2.7 in |
| Diameter (at the widest point) | 4.0 cm / 1.6 in |
| Circumference (at the widest point) | 12.6 cm / 5.0 in |
▶ COLOUR OPTIONS
Available Colour Options
- Godemiche Purple (default)
- Surprise Me
- 1 Colour
- 2 Colour
- Highlight
- Signature (Product Pictures)
Default Colour
Godemiche Purple is the default colour option.
If no colour selection is made, the product will be produced in Godemiche Purple.
Signature Colour
The Signature option refers to the colourway shown in the product listing images.
Product photos always display the Signature colour unless stated otherwise.
Signature colours are specific to each product design.
Handmade Variation Notice
All Godemiche products are handmade.
Colour placement, highlights and finishes may vary.
Each piece is unique.
▶ MATERIALS, SAFETY & CARE
Materials
- Made from 100% high-grade platinum-cured silicone
- Coloured using body-safe, non-toxic pigments
- Free from phthalates, latex, BPA and plasticisers
- Non-porous, hypoallergenic and designed for long-term use
Platinum-cured silicone is considered the gold standard for body-safe sex toys due to its durability, flexibility, and resistance to bacteria.
Body Safety
- Fully non-porous — will not harbour bacteria when cleaned properly
- Safe for external and internal use
- Compatible with water-based lubricants only
⚠ Do not use with silicone-based lubricants, as they may damage the surface.
Allergies & Sensitivities
- Suitable for most people with sensitive skin
- If you have known sensitivities, we recommend performing a patch test before extended use
Cleaning & Care
- Wash before and after each use with:
- Warm water and mild, unscented soap, or
- A dedicated toy cleaner
- Allow to air-dry completely before storing
- For deeper cleaning, toys without electronics may be boiled for 3–5 minutes (if size and design allow)
Storage
- Store in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight
- Keep separate from other silicone toys to prevent surface interaction
- Use a fabric pouch or original packaging where possible
▶ FAQ
Product-Specific FAQs
Does Lilly vibrate on her own?
No. Lilly is wand-powered and requires a compatible body wand to deliver vibration.
Is a wand included?
No. The body wand is not included and must be purchased separately.
Is Lilly insertable?
Yes. Lilly includes an insertable element designed to add internal stimulation while grinding.
Can Lilly be used without vibration?
Yes. Lilly can be used as a stable insertable grinder without turning on a wand.
Is Lilly stable during use?
Yes. When secured properly, she is designed to remain firmly in place during use.
What makes a wand grinder different from a standard grinder?
A wand grinder transfers the power of a body wand through the silicone surface, delivering stronger and deeper vibration than a standard non-vibrating grinder.
Can I control the intensity?
Yes. Intensity depends on your wand settings and how much pressure or movement you add.
Do I need lubricant?
Yes. Water-based lubricant is recommended for comfort and smoother movement.
Handmade variation
Each toy is handmade from body-safe silicone, making every piece unique. Small variations are a natural part of the process and never affect safety or use. Any item that doesn’t meet our strict quality standards is remade before leaving our workshop. Handmade means character, not compromise.
▶ SHIPPING
Handmade Production TimeAll Godemiche products are made by hand.
Production times vary depending on current order volume.
The most up-to-date production times can be found here:
Shipping Timelines
Orders are shipped after production is complete.
Shipping times vary based on destination and selected service.
Full shipping details are available here:
Discreet Packaging
All orders are shipped in discreet, unbranded packaging.
No product or company details appear on the outside of the parcel.
International Availability
International shipping is available.
Delivery times and customs processing may vary by destination.
This is a really interesting design and when used with a body wand (Lovehoney wand fits it perfectly!).
Bought using their 3 for 2 offer which is pretty good. However, my recent purchases from them have been a miss lately.
Godemiche used to be about colours and high quality toys, but the ones I've received is sub par.
As you can see from the photos attached, some bud tips are broken (which doesn't affect it's use - it's just aesthetically not ideal).
Disappointing to opt for the 'Surprise Me' colour, only to end up with their signature 'Godemiche Purple's (which is new & honestly it's not it for me).
Overall, it is functional and works as expected. Quality isn't what I usually would expect.
I was so excited to receive my toy. While it did feel nice on the base part, the insertable part really isn’t firm enough to not come out with the soft firmness I ordered. I should have gotten medium. Without a firmer “bud”, I feel I should have went with the rose one because the petals would have been more stimulating and it doesn’t have a useless floppy part that is in the way for simultaneous ****. Also, I went with a dark pink “highlight” and dark blue base and it all looks blended with no defined highlighted areas, so I recommend 2 colors or signature or even 1 color.
The design is beautiful, I almost want to put it on display in my apartment, it's absolutely art.
It also feels really good, i haven't been able to try it with my vibrator yet but i can only imagine it to feel great.
My only "gripe" is that at the bottom, where they cleanedup the edges, the cutting is a bit messy. It doesn't bother me too much, especially since it's on the bottom, but for the price it could have been trimmed a bit cleaner.
Just a little heads-up:
Every item here is handcrafted with love, which means it can take up to 14 days to make. Once your order’s ready, we’ll send you an email with your tracking info so you’ll know exactly when to expect it.
After that, delivery usually takes 2–3 working days (not including crafting time, of course).
If you’re ordering from the EU, please note your parcel may be subject to import taxes or duties once it arrives in your country, those charges are the buyer’s responsibility to pay.
