Necessary pre-fuck conversations (or ‘how to fuck someone with vaginismus’)
This week we are excited to welcome back Quinn Rhodes (Ze/hir/he/him) with the second in a two part series of posts about vaginismus. This time ze is talking about the conversations you should have with someone with vaginismus before you fuck them or as ze says in the title, how to fuck someone with vaginismus. […]
Sex, body image and breast cancer
This week we are delighted to welcome Julie from Master’s Pleasing Bitch to our blog to talk about the impact of breast cancer on her sex life and body image. This post contains frank talk about breast cancer diagnosis and treatment including mastectomy surgery In 2017 breast cancer accounted for 15% of new cancer cases […]
Vaginismus: sex is not supposed to hurt
This week we are delighted to welcome back Quinn Rhodes with the first in a two part series of posts about vaginismus “Just relax and think about something else.” “Have some wine!” “It’s normal for it to hurt the first time he fucks you.” These are all things that women and afab people* are told […]
SEX & IBS: TO BUTT OR NOT TO BUTT?
Irritable Bowel Syndrome can have a negative impact on your sex life especially when it comes to enjoying anal sex. In this piece Violet Grey offers some thoughts and advice when it comes to exploring anal play with IBS Hi, I’m Violet and I like anal sex. I also live with a condition called Irritable […]
An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Darkness at Bay
There is a strong lonk between depression and lack of libido. In this fabulous piece by Tabitha Rayne she talks about how prescribing herself an orgasm a day and giving herself time to focus on her sexual self had a positive impact on both her mental health and libido. At one point my OCD was […]
National HIV Testing day
Have you ever taken a HIV test? If not then today, which is National HIV Testing day, is the day when we are going to encourage you to change that. We are very lucky here in the UK that testing for HIV and other Sexually Transmitted Infections are done for free on the NHS, however […]
Put A Condom On For International Condom Day
There’s one thing that we should celebrate more than Valentines Day. For some people this day is very important, but let’s be clear, what would we do without condoms?! Yes, condoms are part of our sexual life and having an Interational Condom Day today is great excuse to talk a bit about condoms plus we’ve […]
The in and out of condoms
Condoms, French Letter, Rubbers, Johnny’s, Prophylactic, Love Glove, Cock Sock, Cum Catcher. Whatever you call it is one of the oldest and yet still most popular forms of birth control in the world today. Did you know that the oldest condoms ever excavated were found in a cesspit located in the grounds of Dudley Castle […]
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