Ask A Stupid Question
We have all done it; wanted to ask a question but haven’t because in our head the question sounds so fucking stupid and so we were embarrassed to ask it out loud. If you’re like us, you then go somewhere quiet and google your ‘stupid question’ to find a million search results none of which […]
Sex Furniture: How To Use The Liberator Wedge
If you have ever though ‘I’d love some sex furniture’ then today is your luck day! Today we talking about how to use the Liberator Wedge; a foam wedge essentially that’s going to change your sex game! The Wedge Packaging Before we talk about the wedge from Liberator we have to talk about the packaging. […]
BREAKING THE CHAINS OF SEXUAL SHAME
Sexual shame is a hugely common issue for many people. We live in a society that sends shaming messages about bodies and sex constantly so when Violet Grey offered to write us a piece about it including ways in which we can challenge that shame we knew we had to take her up on the […]
Glowing sex toys and how to use them
Imagine a dark, the kind of inky darkness that’s thick and dense, the kind that your eyes can’t see through no matter how hard you try. But then there is a light, a light your eyes become fixated on, a light that’s the only thing you can see. The only sounds heard are your own […]
Top 10 Most Searched for Kinks and Fetishes
So you have all been lock up in your homes for a significant portion of the year. People have been gardening, reading books, even writing books, decorating their homes, sewing and crafting and searching the internet for all sorts of porn. Wait what? Yes that is right, we don’t need to shy about it. Whilst […]
Sex, body image and breast cancer
This week we are delighted to welcome Julie from Master’s Pleasing Bitch to our blog to talk about the impact of breast cancer on her sex life and body image. This post contains frank talk about breast cancer diagnosis and treatment including mastectomy surgery In 2017 breast cancer accounted for 15% of new cancer cases […]
Vaginismus: sex is not supposed to hurt
This week we are delighted to welcome back Quinn Rhodes with the first in a two part series of posts about vaginismus “Just relax and think about something else.” “Have some wine!” “It’s normal for it to hurt the first time he fucks you.” These are all things that women and afab people* are told […]
Staying Connected Through Sex After Having Kids
Everyone who is or has been a parent knows that bringing children into a relationship has a huge impact on lots of things but it can really have an impact on your sexy life. In this piece Alice Queen of Vanilla is the New Kink talks about the ways in which her and her partner […]
SpareParts Now At Godemiche
When we first started to explore strap ons shopping way back when we found even shops like Lovehoney, didn’t have a strap on category. Finding anything meant looking around, lots of reading and lots of trial and error. SpareParts was a harness we bought back in 2012, the Joque in red to be precise and […]
SEX & IBS: TO BUTT OR NOT TO BUTT?
Irritable Bowel Syndrome can have a negative impact on your sex life especially when it comes to enjoying anal sex. In this piece Violet Grey offers some thoughts and advice when it comes to exploring anal play with IBS Hi, I’m Violet and I like anal sex. I also live with a condition called Irritable […]