What’s the Big Deal with Squirting, Anyway?
Squirting is one of those topics in the sexuality world that is both intensely alluring and intensely controversial to many people. Some people are still questioning if it even exists, while others feel frustrated that they haven’t been able to get there. So: let’s talk squirting! “Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid from folks […]
Sex Boundaries – What are they and how to talk about them.
When it comes to any sexual relationship we all have personal boundaries around the things we want/like to do and things we don’t want/like to do. Over times those things may change and evolve as we explore and experience different things but some of them will be firmly set in stone and are never to […]
Anal Play -5 Tips For Exploring Anal Play
Anal play (sexual activity, either solo or with a partner(s) involving the back passage) can be an exciting if you want to experiment with something new. However, it’s not uncommon to feel daunted by anal play. Let’s face it, most have us have seen or heard of some form of anal play, be it horror […]
BDSM relationships: What kinky relationships can teach everyone to do better.
What makes a relationship great is that it works for the people in it. BDSM relationships are no better or worse than vanilla or non kinky relationships but there are some over arching elements of BDSM relationships that centre around developing a positive and healthy dynamic between the people involved that many people could really […]
1st Time Pegging? Build Endurance With 4 Easy Exercises
Whether it is your 1st time pegging your partner or you have just started to explore, there’s so much to learn! From the compatibility between different lubes, dildo materials, and condoms (highly recommended for toy cleanliness), to making sure you’re safely graduating your partner’s anal experience, it’s a lot to take in. One thing many […]
5 (slightly mad) stay at home Valentine’s day ideas
In fact the title should be 5 (slightly mad) stay at home Valentine’s day ideas for when you have been staying home all year but that seemed a bit wordy. It is the month of love, Valentines day is on Sunday and I am sure you have amazing dates planned with romance and love in […]
Which Type of Non-Monogamy is Right For You?
People often think of monogamy and non-monogamy as a binary choice – you’re either one or the other and there is no middle ground. But I prefer to think of both monogamy and non-monogamy as a spectrum, with tonnes of middle ground and grey areas to play around in. If you think you might be […]
Are sex toys safe?
At first glance asking if sex toys are safe seems a bit like a silly question but actually when you examine it a bit more it is actually a really good question with a longer answer than just yes or no. In fact the answer is probably more along the lines of probably or maybe […]
How To Have a Sexy Solo Valentine’s to Remember
Just because you are single doesn’t mean you can’t still have a sexy solo Valentine’s day to remember. Not sure how? Shannon Burton is here to help you plan the perfect solos Valentine’s date with yourself Valentine’s Day can be tough for those of us riding solo, but it doesn’t have to be. Sometimes, dedicating […]
What colour says about your sexy self
Have you heard of colour psychology? It is the study of colour hues and how they determine and effect human behaviour. It is actually an fairly widely studied subject area when it comes to human behaviour. For example we know that colour has a huge affect when it comes to food and not just the […]