The Complete Guide to Pegging for Beginners
The idea of pegging is alluring and daunting in equal measure to many people. It also seems to be becoming increasingly popular with lots of people wanting to have their first pegging experience. When I first entered the sex positive community in the late ‘00s, barely anyone was talking about it. Now, pegging is so […]
Preparing for Anal Play: What Are Your Hygiene Options?
Let’s talk about preparing for anal play: One of the biggest barriers people encounter to having fun doing “butt stuff” is the idea that anal play is inherently, well, messy. It’s true that it’s impossible to engage in anal play that is 100% feces-free. Even the most poop-free experiences leave trace amounts of fecal matter […]
Anal Play and Solo Sex – Having fun with your bum!
Looking for a fun, safe way to ramp things up this Masturbation Month? If you haven’t tried adding anal play to your solo sex, you’re in luck! Solo anal play entices people for many reasons. From testing the waters in an oft-overlooked erogenous zone to the thrill of engaging in something many consider taboo, even […]
Single and ready to mingle…on the Fetish Scene
It has been a long and lonely year and then some (Fuck 2020) many of us are ready to get back out there doing kinky maybe sexy things with others. How do you go about doing that? (especially if you’re single) Where is this fetish scene people talk about and how do you access it? […]
Living Your Best Solo Sex Life
Surviving the pandemic is nothing short of amazing for all of us. We’re all stronger than we were before, but it comes at a cost. Many of us don’t have sexual partners, which is why the sex toy industry is booming. We realize that having a solo sex life is still a good sex life. […]
Strap-On Sex -A Complete Guide for Beginners
As someone who writes about sex for a living, I get a lot of questions about strap-on sex. Many people, it seems, are curious about strapping it on. But how does strap-on sex work and how do you get started? Read on to find out everything you ever needed to know about this incredibly hot […]
Period Sex – Getting it on when you are on
For most people born with a womb periods are a regular part of their adult lives. It is something that will turn up most months from their early to mid teens right up until their late 40’s/early 50’s. Sure contraception, pregnancy and other factors can there might be breaks in that cycle but for the […]
Does penis size matter?
The average penis size? Well actually that kind of depends where you live in the world but roughly it is somewhere between 5 and 6 inches long when erect with the average girth being 4 and 5 inches when erect but just how humans come in all shapes and sizes the same is true for […]
Mutual Masturbation – Why you should wank with your partner
Masturbation is something we tend to think of a solitary affair. It is often portrayed as something people do as a result of not having a partner or when a partner is not feeling like having sex. It is a substitute for partnered sex. But that is an inaccurate view. I mean it can be […]
Bullet Vibes – Not just for your clit
Bullet vibes have been a staple of the sex toy industry for many years now. These tiny little bundles of buzzing delight have been marketed at those folks with a clitoris as the ideal little toy to keep in your bedside draw and your hand bag. It is a toy that for many is a […]