The thought of a lady wearing a strap on with the intention of inserting it into someone’s ass hole is quite daunting for many men. But the fact of the matter is it’s the dark secret desire that millions of heterosexual men have, to be taken, dominated even, by a beautiful lady.
Being fucked by a woman wearing a strap on is called ‘Pegging’, it’s nothing new and has been around for years, being enjoyed by the minority while the majority naively miss out on a whole new world of sexual pleasure. So don’t feel ashamed for being intrigued about pegging, instead feel empowered with the knowledge that you will soon be having a whole new sex life that gives you bigger more powerful orgasms and the majority of the world will be missing out.
There are questions I get asked on a regular basis by people titillated by the thought of pegging, so I’m going to answer a couple to help say you get to the pleasing strap on world you are so intrigued by.
A. There is no simple answer for this I’m afraid, you know your partner better than anyone so you should have a good idea how she might react. Start with what you know, if you have an adventurous sex life and she likes anal then tell her you would like to experience prostate pleasure. You could talk about prostate toys, something you could wear during sex to give you a better orgasm. Once you are there it is a simple step to strap-ons and one that hopefully she will be very open minded to having already explored some anal play with you.
If you think your partner maybe be less experienced or adventurous then I’d recommend starting off by talking about fantasy’s, just gently drop it in at the right time and then give them a chance to ponder it. You could also start by asking her about her orgasms, does she has different types, if she has a G-spot orgasms, how they feel, what’s different about the way they feel to other orgams and then you have the perfect chance to say ‘They say the male equivalent of the G-spot is called the prostate found in the bum’. It will clearly take some time to get to the stage of discussing strap-on play, it really will depend on how your partner reacts to subtle conversations, but often people can surprise you once you start a conversation going. One thing is for sure taking your time and talking a lot about it are the steps you need to be taking so as slow or as fast as you and your partner feel comfortable with is the key.
A. The anus is a muscle and it will safely stretch, but if you use something too big and too quick you can cause yourself some real damage and you will be in pain. So take your time start with something small like a finger, a prostate toy or a butt plug until you feel relaxed and comfortable with the new feelings. When you’re on edge and anxious your body will contract your sphincter (the ring of muscle at the opening of your bum) tightly making penetration even harder and potentially adding to your anal experience being a little painful. So relax, your experimenting with your loved one who too is experimenting, you should feel at ease and hopefully even closer as a couple.
Lube is also something that SO MANY people overlook and if they use it, often don’t use enough for anal. Your bum isn’t a self-lubricating orifice so use lots, plenty on you and plenty on the toy. Lube is a godsend when it comes to all anal play. It is going to make anal so much more enjoyable and easier. I’d generally recommend a good anal lube as it’s generally thicker in consistency and designed for use with the bum. If you want a general lube then water based lubes can be used with everything, but will need to be reapplied depending how long you play for. A silicone lube is very slippery and last for ages but it can destroy your sex toys if you use it with the wrong ones so be careful.
A. You don’t have to be gay to enjoy anal sex and having a beautiful woman pleasing you is the polar opposite to what a gay man would enjoy even if it does include receiving anal. Having the most powerful orgasm you have ever had is an option and one you choose yourself. You can be lead by society’s norms and live your life without experiencing anal and the best orgasm you have ever had or you can cast those worries aside and take the plunge into something new and find out exactly what it is like for yourself.
