Monika holding red corset strap on harness with words Picking a strap on harness written over it

Picking a Strapon Harness

Picking the right strapon harness might be a little bit confusing at the beginning. There are so many styles and variations to choose from that it feels like you want to pick them all just to see how they look on you. Been there done that! You’re not alone.

So let us help you to get to know the styles of the strapon harnesses so that you might get a better idea of which one would suit you.

Overall there are three styles of Strapons. So lets start from the most popular:

1.Joque Style Harness

This strapon is great to start with but at the same time it is very confusing to put it on. So you might look at the images on the box explaining how to put this strapon on or watch YouTube videos. Joque Style Harness has a strap around your waist so its secure, also two separate straps around your tights. The straps are long enough for almost every person so there’s no worry about the size. The beautiful thing about that is you can always cut the rest which you don’t need. My favorite from this style is from Sportsheet Red Lace Corsette Strapon. So sexy!

The best thing about Joque style harness for me is crotchless feature. My personal tips:

  • while penetrating your partner with a strapon dildo stop for a moment and let him please you for a bit with their tongue.
  • change the position to sixty nine and please each other together. Let your partner to lick you and vice versa. It really spice things up and gives that little twist in the whole play.
  • use a vibrator or dildo to please yourself and let your partner watch you.
  • wear a strapless dildo to penetrate both of you. The strapon harness holds a dildo nicely.

You can really play around and use your imagination with different positions when using Joques style Harness. It also feels so damn sexy and gives you confidence when it’s on.

2. Thong style Harness

It reminds me of the thong underwear. This harness is not for everyone, you might find it difficult if don’t like the feel of a string in your bum. The strap between your legs might rub the lady parts which might give you a pleasure but it could also be irritating during the sexy time. So it really comes down to personal choice. My advice: just try it and everything will be clear.

 3. Panty Style Harness

There are so comfortable!!! This would be my second choice from all of the styles. There are like pants that you wear for a trip and forget that it’s a strapon. They come in a three types ,panties, boxers and crotchless. With this style you’ll have to measure your thighs and waist to get the right size. The only down thing about this style is that the O-Ring doesn’t change, but don’t worry there are some stabilizers inserts to make it a bit easier like the one from Rodeoh, but do your research first. The panty style harnesses are really very simple.

Now let’s talk about the features you may find on some of the harnesses we’ve spoke about.

Materials:

Strapon Harnesses are made from different materials like leather, nylon, cotton, spandex, latex, pvc or polyester. It really is about your personal preference but remember the more expensive the material such as leather the more money you’ll have to pay.

Vibrators:

Some of the strapons come with a little bullet pockets so you can slide your bullet vibrator in which will give you that extra pleasure on your clit during pegging. We always use Rocks Off RO80 simply because they are so powerfull and fit perfectly in the little pocket.

Removable O-Rings

O-rings are very important if you want to take your pegging play to the next level and try different bigger sizes of the dildo. The O-Rings can be easily changed with the pop studs. Usually there are three sizes 1.5, 1.75 and 2.0inch.

For a look at the three different styles check out out video below.

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Monika standing naked on top of rocks looking down over the valley at Bradgate Park

On Top

It’s been just over a year since I’ve started my adventure with photography. As long as I can remember there have been cameras in our house, even before the first mobile phone was invented. Gosh, it feels very old when saying it this way.

When I first joined a basic photography course for beginners it was to learn about my DSLR so I can take better product images.

The course was brilliant, from one project to another I felt that I had a mission to do something amazing. I couldn’t wait to explore a new world of creativity and art.

And here I am now, on top of the hill of one of the nicest parks in Leicester – Bradgate Park. I had to wait 30 min at this spot for all tge curious dog walkers to go away.

Oh, I wanted to do it so badly! I knew that this is the image (in my head) I wanted from this trip. This is the one.

I’m wondering if anyone saw me from the other side…

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Underneath his command

Underneath His Command

I’ve decided to include an image of @wriggly_kitty and @CJForrestauthor for the June prompt which is Underneath.

Back in March I had an amazing opportunity to take part in their rope play in our AirBnB room during the Eroticon weekend.

It was a very intense experience for me as a third person. But what really stuck in my head was the tension and passion they shared with each other. @wriggly_kitty put all her trust, body and mind into his hands. Underneath his command she was like a present that he wrapped so carefully in rope making her look and feel safe and secure.

When she lay down on the white sheet of the bed she was at his mercy, underneath his command and control. The things he whispered into to her ear made her groan deeply.

The room was filled with tension and it was a very erotic experience for me to witness them together like this

 

Underneath his command from above

Check other beautiful entries for this challenging prompt by kissing the lips below.

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My view Sinful sunday. Monika sitting naked with her back to the camera on a bench at the top of a hill

My view – Sinful Sunday

My view is my treasure which, I have found this morning…

I was waiting for a good 30 minutes to own this place and now it’s mine.

This bench on top of the hill, me looking down at the people who may climb after me,

– don’t think about it, just breath… relax… and breath…

Take this moment to just be me… breath this nice cool breeze again and again…-

– I’m trying to let go the pressure and enjoy it.

I’ve never had this feeling in me when getting naked for a picture before.

and now the excitement has got me.

– Oh, my gosh how is this even happening?

I am totally naked! I’m so bloody happy! –

So many mixed feelings.

This was the most beautiful morning…

 

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Forest Princess Sinful Sunday

Forest Princess – Sinful Sunday

I called this image the Forest Princess because that’s how I felt when taking this image. The white dress made me feel so special at that moment.

Once the spot was totally mine it was the right time to unveal my pale skin out from my clothes.

 

 

Forest Princess Sinful Sunday

I was looking for the perfect location for my pictures for a long time that morning, it was getting late and people started to come and run around this gorgeous place.

Only if they knew what was just right infront of their eyes… I still feel excited even thinking about it.

PS. What would you call this image? I’m curious your thoughts. M xxx

Forest Princess Sinful Sunday

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Conscious - Sinful Sunday

Conscious – Sinful Sunday

It’s 6am and there’s no time for sleep anymore. I want to get rid of my clothes and be closer to the nature…

Let me just lay here under the beautiful tree and just breath the clear air for a bit.

I just want to forget about everything and be conscious of this moment. It’s perfect.

The sun touches my pale skin and it feels so empowering knowing that someone might see me.

The excitement got me and my nipples are hard. Come closer to the window and see me, I don’t mind.

Let me just lay here for few more minutes… just a little bit more, I want to feel more…

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Blossom – Sinful Sunday

Blossom

I am a flower

Blossoming under the sun

Swaying with breeze of life

Waiting in the rain

For a glimpse of sunlight

Catching morning few amidst

The darkness

sleeping in nutrients to fulfil my knowledge

Growing stronger each day

I stand still

As I watch myself blossom

-Janelle Fernandez

Feeling the nature

PS. This picture was taken in an early Sunday morning when we still had a nice sunny days in UK.

I am missing the warm brushes of the sun so much and I thought I will bring  some memories for the time being of the cold weather outside.

I was on my own walking on the wet grass to set the camera and the opposite of the trees there are actually some houses.

I haven’t seen anybody but if so I think they had a great entertainment that Sunday at 6am;)

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Confused Rainbow Limited Edition Pastel

Special edition Pastel Confused Rainbow

What do you get if you mix some Mellow yellow, Paris green, Princess Perfume, Blue Lagoon, Peach Puff and Electric Lavender together?

The answer is our new limited edition pastel confused rainbow!

Despite the occasional sprinkling of snow and days of rain which still feel a lot like winter it is officially the beginning of spring and that means chocolate, daffodils, and everything in beautiful pastel colours. Including your dildo!

Last year we launched our pastel collection and we wanted to do something similar but new this time around and we have stepped it up a notch and decided to combine all those beautiful soft colours that you love so much into one delightfully swirly confused rainbow. It has taken us a couple of months to perfect the pour on this product because the colours are more subtle than in the original confused rainbow they need to be mixed in a very specific way to retain the distinct colours within one dildo but we finally worked it out and we think the end result is something very special indeed.

This unique colour mix is available only in our Adam, Ambit and Hercules models and only for 22 days. So you only have until the 21st April 2018 to get your hands on one of these special edition toys before they disappear.

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Beholder – Sinful Sunday

To say that I love images is an under-statement.

I love to capture people’s faces, their expression, feelings and beautiful bodies , so when Eroticon was coming I knew that my goal would be to take some sexy images of people I was surrounded by. And I wasn’t wrong.

First day at Eroticon and I fully took advantage of the opportunities I was presented with.

I stayed with WrigglyKitty at the AirBnb and she surprised me with the company of Charlie J Forest  aka @CJForrestauthor. As I’ve found out they had everything planned, all I had to do was just be an invisible beholder.

 

The intense of the rope play they experienced was incredible.

The room was filled with tension and love.

They took time for themselves and I adore the passion that flowed between them.

I have to admit – I was a bit jealous.

 

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Wriggly Kitty Rope Play Eroticon 2018

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Eroticon 2018 Meet & Greet

It will be my second time at Eroticon and it will be the first one when I will be socialising at the Friday night Meet and Greet. To be very honest with you –  I am petrified but also very excited. Last year it was truly fascinating to listen to talks about so many interesting topics and it made me want to be a blogger. I know it’s crazy, if only I had that creative mind.

This time I will be on my own without Adam, who is always good at cheering me up and making me feel less anxious but I hope that once I get to meet you all that will go away.

Here is my Eroticon 2018 Meet & Greet.

NAME (and Twitter if you have one)

Monika you can find us @gsilicone.

What are you most looking forward to about Eroticon 2018?

I don’t really like crowds but this particular event really excites me. When I first attend eroticon last year I was so impressed at amount of wonderful and knowledgeable  people we met. Also I can’t wait to listen to the session about gender fluid which I hope will help me to understand it more and also to meet Hannah Witton. I’ve been following her journey for a while now and she really inspires me as a human. It’s all so exciting!

We are creating a play list of songs for the Friday Night Meet and Greet. Nominate one song that you would like us to add to the play list and tell us why you picked that song.

That’s a tough one cause I love music. It will have to be something from 90’s.

Let The King sing while I have a glass of wine – Michael Jackson ‘Remember the time’. It reminds me of my childhood and all the wonderful singers I had an opportunity to watch.

What’s the first career you dreamed of having as a kid?

I don’t really remember but I always had that feeling that it will be something big. I was always confused of what I want to do.

Weirdest place you’ve ever gotten up to mischief (define ‘mischief’ however you like…)

I will always remember the the time on the roof top of a 4 story building in the middle of our neighbourhood  on a very hot summer day … I’m very thankful for the blanket we had. Those days makes me blush and bring a cheeky smile to my face.

Tell us two truths and a lie about yourself

I am completely nuts about Patrick Swayze and the movie Dirty Dancing. I’ve watched it like hundred and fifty three times and I would watch it again and again. Totally in love !

I won a karaoke competition in one of the night out bars. It was a huge surprise but I loved it!

I had a tattoo removed because it was reminding me of my first boyfriend. It was his initials unfortunately.

Complete the sentence: I want

… to dance with my man! Me and him on the dance floor dancing salsa like a professionals. That’s what I want:)

If you’re attending at Eroticon or interested to read other peoples intros please follow this link to introduce yourself everyone.

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