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Beginners Guide To Douching/Enema

Anal douching/enema’s are something we talk about often but as a general rule we find no one knows what they are. So we have put together our beginners guide to anal douching/enema.

However if you prefer watching to reading then jump straight to the bottom of this post and watch our video on the subject

What does an anal douche/enema look like?

An anal douche has a bulbous base, the bulbous base is hollow and can be made of plastics, silicone or rubber. The bulbous base is hollow and holds a small amount of water. At the top of the bulbous base is a nozzle, water is squeezed from the base up through the nozzle and into your butt.

Why douche?

The body passes poo out the bum hole and douching is a way of cleaning your butt for anal sex. If your anxious about getting shit all over your dick then douching can help alleviate that concern. It’s also much cleaner for general penetration and also other things such as anal rimming.

Douching on a daily basis is not recommended as it can affect the intestinal microflora, disturbing the balance of your bowel. A simple and easy way for a cleaner dowel is a high-fibre healthier diet and less greasy foods will stiffen up your poo and greatly reduce the need to douche.

How to use a douche

Buy yourself an anal douche. We DO NOT recommend sharing anal douche even if it’s completely cleaned. Having your own anal  douche reduces the chance of spreading intestinal parasites or certain STIs.

Fill the bulbous base with lukewarm water. Then carefully insert the nozzle in to your butt and squeeze in the water no need to squeeze in all the water. Pro tip, lube up the tip so it goes in nice and smoothly. Also make sure the water is lukewarm, cold water will give you cramps, hot water can scold your insides. With the water inside you, hold it there in your butt for a couple of seconds, standing up is easier to hold on the water inside. After a couple of seconds sit down on the toilet and release all the water. You need to get up and look at the water, if the toilet water is not clear then you need to repeat the douching process again, fill up the douche, stick it in, squeeze, release, check. You want to repeat this steps until the waters clear. If you have done this 6 time and the water is not clear then we recommend you accept today’s not a butt day and stop.

Take a couple of moments to make sure all the waters out. A common mistake is that they people don’t  get all the water out and that water makes an appearance when your having anal sex. It’s not pleasant and avoidable so just take a couple of seconds to make sure it’s all gone. 

Once the water runs clear then it’s time for a shower because you can’t be too clean when it comes to butt play. Wash your butt, don’t put soap in side your butt. 

So that was our simple steps to anal douching. We hope it helps and if you have any questions please get in contact.

Douching really is as simple as it sounds you just have to take your time. 

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Picture of Monika in strap on harness with Adam next to her covering his genitals with his hands

What is pegging?


Pegging is the reason we got in to the adult industry with ThatPosition back in 2012. It’s something we know well and something we LOVE to talk about and believe it or not pegging is super, super popular.

If you don’t know what pegging is, your in the right place to learn. We have put together this no nonsense Q&A to simply explain what pegging is so you can go and explore. We also have a video for those of you like me that prefer watching to reading. Just scroll to the bottom of the page and hit play.

Q. What is pegging?

 Simply put pegging is a sexual act where a woman fucks a guy in the ass with a dildo.The dildo is generally held in a strap on harness, like sexy underwear that lets you fuck a people.

Q. How does a woman do a guy?

Well the fucking is done with a dildo that usually has a round, flared base designed for a strap on harness. The flared base also stops a toy being pulled in to your bum if used out of a strap on harness. The woman then wears a strap on harness that holds the dildo so her hands are free to do the holding and her hips can do the rocking. 

Q. Is it enjoyable?

Hell yes. There are many enjoyable things about it. 

The thought of it being naughty and ‘not the done thing’ can be for some people very exciting. Then you have the physical sensation that is also enjoyable enhanced by the prostate (the male g-spot) that is found just inside the bum. Then you have the visual side, the person fucking you, the way their boobs sway and move, how their hands wander and eyes shine with excitement. Pack them all together and what you get is powerful, mind blowing orgasms. 

Q. Where do we start?

Assuming that you have both discussed pegging then a basic strap on harness and slender, finger like dildo and lube would be the ideal place to start. 

Our advice on harnesses is not to spend to much, you don’t yet know what you both like and every strap on harness and dildo have different features, feelings and price. We have even made a video about what harness to buy which you can see on Picking a Strapon Harness.

A great first harness and toy for a large majority of people would be the Sportsheets Red Lace Corsette Harness and one of our specially designed pegs or apprentice dildos. 

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Three Pegging Positions

3 Pegging Positions You Should Know

Today’s topic is pegging positions.

Doggy, Missionary & Cowboy are the 3 main positions for pegging that we enjoy. Each of these positions can be adapted with slight variation in body position or different locations and furniture such as beds or chairs. 

And if reading is not your thing than jump straight to the bottom and watch our video on this subject instead.

Doggy

So let’s start with the one everyone will know, doggy style. The person being pegged is at the bottom on hands an knees and the pegger is the one behind them on their knees. 

It’s a simple position that involves the pegger doing all the work. 

This position is great for more focused prostate stimulation also and also the person doing the pegging a great of movement. If you are new to pegging though take it easy at first as it is a new sensation that the person being pegged will need time to get used to.

Top tip – if your using a curved dildo like our Ambit, then turn it round so the dildo points down and not up. Your prostate is between the bladder and the tummy, so when your on your hands and knees to get the most prostate stimulation make sure your toy curves down towards the prostate not away from it. 

Missionary 

Another staple sex position of the bedroom but this time round he is on the bottom and she is on top. While laying on your back raise your legs towards your chest, your probably going to want to hold your legs.

As a pegger if your feeling especially dominant you can take hold of their legs and force them back. Taking control can add to the experience for both of you, remember this is a change of positions for you both, sometimes you want to be dominated and that feeling of just being fucked is hot. 

This position is great if you love watching. Laying on your back you get to see everything, her face, her boobs, your cock. Talking about cocks, this position is the best for having unrestricted access to your cock and allows you to look into each others eyes as you share this experience together.

Top tip – have a pillow handy to place under your lower back. It will raise you up just a little making penetration easier and enhancing the feeling.

Cowboy

Yep you got it just like cow girl but he does the riding. It lets your have complete control over how quick, how deep and just exactly how much you want to stimulate the prostate. 

Much more of a relaxed position for the pegger who lays on there back and enjoys the show. As a pegger this is also a good position for playing with their cock as you don’t have to concentrate on anything other than enjoying the show. 

Top tip – this is a great position to play around with edging. Edging is where you get almost to the point of orgasm, then stop and this is repeated. The build up of almost having an orgasm repeatedly can make for a more explosive orgasm when you finally do.

In summery these are 3 pegging positions we believe you should try first, each having a different sensation for you both to experience.  It’s ok not to like them all, everyone is different and it’s all about finding whats enjoyable for you. When you find what you like then you can explore different variations on that position.

Let us know your top tips and what position or positions you enjoy the most when it comes to pegging in the comments below.

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Inspired By Zoot From The Muppets

Ok, so I love love LOVE all the things Jim Henson, Dark Crystal, Bunnies, Sesame Street, The Story Teller the list just goes on really doesn’t it. As a child not only do I remember watching the shows I also remember being super interested in puppetry to the extent I had all sorts of hand puppets and even dabbled, badly, in ventriloquism.

All these years later I still enjoy crying at The Muppets Christmas Carol, it’s the Timmy bit every damn time.

Being as these little puppets have had an impact in my life, it felt only fitting to make something for the ‘Inspired By’ collection.

I know you’re thinking, but why Zoot, not someone we all know. Well part of the reason is to do with colours, that amazing rich blue in the hair, the chartreuse in the nose and that aqua like turquoise skin tone are all individually really nice. But the main reason was because I like his character and some of the sketches made around him. I wish in some ways I was a little more like Zoot, a little calmer, a little laid back and  of course an epic saxophone player.

We made the Adam with a vibrator because Zoot is the kind of character that wants to feel the vibe and so it fits perfectly within this ‘Inspired By’ project

This Zoot inspired vibrating dildo is the only one! Super limited! And you can buy it in our shop Zoot from the Muppets

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Monika holding red corset strap on harness with words Picking a strap on harness written over it

Picking a Strapon Harness

Picking the right strapon harness might be a little bit confusing at the beginning. There are so many styles and variations to choose from that it feels like you want to pick them all just to see how they look on you. Been there done that! You’re not alone.

So let us help you to get to know the styles of the strapon harnesses so that you might get a better idea of which one would suit you.

Overall there are three styles of Strapons. So lets start from the most popular:

1.Joque Style Harness

This strapon is great to start with but at the same time it is very confusing to put it on. So you might look at the images on the box explaining how to put this strapon on or watch YouTube videos. Joque Style Harness has a strap around your waist so its secure, also two separate straps around your tights. The straps are long enough for almost every person so there’s no worry about the size. The beautiful thing about that is you can always cut the rest which you don’t need. My favorite from this style is from Sportsheet Red Lace Corsette Strapon. So sexy!

The best thing about Joque style harness for me is crotchless feature. My personal tips:

  • while penetrating your partner with a strapon dildo stop for a moment and let him please you for a bit with their tongue.
  • change the position to sixty nine and please each other together. Let your partner to lick you and vice versa. It really spice things up and gives that little twist in the whole play.
  • use a vibrator or dildo to please yourself and let your partner watch you.
  • wear a strapless dildo to penetrate both of you. The strapon harness holds a dildo nicely.

You can really play around and use your imagination with different positions when using Joques style Harness. It also feels so damn sexy and gives you confidence when it’s on.

2. Thong style Harness

It reminds me of the thong underwear. This harness is not for everyone, you might find it difficult if don’t like the feel of a string in your bum. The strap between your legs might rub the lady parts which might give you a pleasure but it could also be irritating during the sexy time. So it really comes down to personal choice. My advice: just try it and everything will be clear.

 3. Panty Style Harness

There are so comfortable!!! This would be my second choice from all of the styles. There are like pants that you wear for a trip and forget that it’s a strapon. They come in a three types ,panties, boxers and crotchless. With this style you’ll have to measure your thighs and waist to get the right size. The only down thing about this style is that the O-Ring doesn’t change, but don’t worry there are some stabilizers inserts to make it a bit easier like the one from Rodeoh, but do your research first. The panty style harnesses are really very simple.

Now let’s talk about the features you may find on some of the harnesses we’ve spoke about.

Materials:

Strapon Harnesses are made from different materials like leather, nylon, cotton, spandex, latex, pvc or polyester. It really is about your personal preference but remember the more expensive the material such as leather the more money you’ll have to pay.

Vibrators:

Some of the strapons come with a little bullet pockets so you can slide your bullet vibrator in which will give you that extra pleasure on your clit during pegging. We always use Rocks Off RO80 simply because they are so powerfull and fit perfectly in the little pocket.

Removable O-Rings

O-rings are very important if you want to take your pegging play to the next level and try different bigger sizes of the dildo. The O-Rings can be easily changed with the pop studs. Usually there are three sizes 1.5, 1.75 and 2.0inch.

For a look at the three different styles check out out video below.

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Monika standing naked on top of rocks looking down over the valley at Bradgate Park

On Top

It’s been just over a year since I’ve started my adventure with photography. As long as I can remember there have been cameras in our house, even before the first mobile phone was invented. Gosh, it feels very old when saying it this way.

When I first joined a basic photography course for beginners it was to learn about my DSLR so I can take better product images.

The course was brilliant, from one project to another I felt that I had a mission to do something amazing. I couldn’t wait to explore a new world of creativity and art.

And here I am now, on top of the hill of one of the nicest parks in Leicester – Bradgate Park. I had to wait 30 min at this spot for all tge curious dog walkers to go away.

Oh, I wanted to do it so badly! I knew that this is the image (in my head) I wanted from this trip. This is the one.

I’m wondering if anyone saw me from the other side…

Check who else was sinful this Sunday

 

 

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Underneath his command

Underneath His Command

I’ve decided to include an image of @wriggly_kitty and @CJForrestauthor for the June prompt which is Underneath.

Back in March I had an amazing opportunity to take part in their rope play in our AirBnB room during the Eroticon weekend.

It was a very intense experience for me as a third person. But what really stuck in my head was the tension and passion they shared with each other. @wriggly_kitty put all her trust, body and mind into his hands. Underneath his command she was like a present that he wrapped so carefully in rope making her look and feel safe and secure.

When she lay down on the white sheet of the bed she was at his mercy, underneath his command and control. The things he whispered into to her ear made her groan deeply.

The room was filled with tension and it was a very erotic experience for me to witness them together like this

 

Underneath his command from above

Check other beautiful entries for this challenging prompt by kissing the lips below.

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My view Sinful sunday. Monika sitting naked with her back to the camera on a bench at the top of a hill

My view – Sinful Sunday

My view is my treasure which, I have found this morning…

I was waiting for a good 30 minutes to own this place and now it’s mine.

This bench on top of the hill, me looking down at the people who may climb after me,

– don’t think about it, just breath… relax… and breath…

Take this moment to just be me… breath this nice cool breeze again and again…-

– I’m trying to let go the pressure and enjoy it.

I’ve never had this feeling in me when getting naked for a picture before.

and now the excitement has got me.

– Oh, my gosh how is this even happening?

I am totally naked! I’m so bloody happy! –

So many mixed feelings.

This was the most beautiful morning…

 

Check who else has been sinful by kissing the lips…

 

 

 

 

 

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Forest Princess Sinful Sunday

Forest Princess – Sinful Sunday

I called this image the Forest Princess because that’s how I felt when taking this image. The white dress made me feel so special at that moment.

Once the spot was totally mine it was the right time to unveal my pale skin out from my clothes.

 

 

Forest Princess Sinful Sunday

I was looking for the perfect location for my pictures for a long time that morning, it was getting late and people started to come and run around this gorgeous place.

Only if they knew what was just right infront of their eyes… I still feel excited even thinking about it.

PS. What would you call this image? I’m curious your thoughts. M xxx

Forest Princess Sinful Sunday

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Conscious - Sinful Sunday

Conscious – Sinful Sunday

It’s 6am and there’s no time for sleep anymore. I want to get rid of my clothes and be closer to the nature…

Let me just lay here under the beautiful tree and just breath the clear air for a bit.

I just want to forget about everything and be conscious of this moment. It’s perfect.

The sun touches my pale skin and it feels so empowering knowing that someone might see me.

The excitement got me and my nipples are hard. Come closer to the window and see me, I don’t mind.

Let me just lay here for few more minutes… just a little bit more, I want to feel more…

Kiss the lips to check who was Sinful this sunday

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