BREAKING THE CHAINS OF SEXUAL SHAME
Sexual shame is a hugely common issue for many people. We live in a society that sends shaming messages about bodies and sex constantly so when Violet Grey offered to write us a piece about it including ways in which we can challenge that shame we knew we had to take her up on the […]
Staying Connected Through Sex After Having Kids
Everyone who is or has been a parent knows that bringing children into a relationship has a huge impact on lots of things but it can really have an impact on your sexy life. In this piece Alice Queen of Vanilla is the New Kink talks about the ways in which her and her partner […]
SEX & IBS: TO BUTT OR NOT TO BUTT?
Irritable Bowel Syndrome can have a negative impact on your sex life especially when it comes to enjoying anal sex. In this piece Violet Grey offers some thoughts and advice when it comes to exploring anal play with IBS Hi, I’m Violet and I like anal sex. I also live with a condition called Irritable […]
The View from the Bed By Violet Fawkes
It has been a while since we have treated you to any erotic fiction on our blog. So here we have a little something for you to enjoy from the fabulous Violet Fawkes on watching and being watched It was the squeak and clank of the bathtub faucet that awoke me. I lay in the […]
Cybersex: Making it a sex date to remember
Not everyone is locked down with a partner right now. Many single people are shut away from friends, family and lovers and so we invited Topher Taylor to share some thoughts and tips on having great cybersex Hello sexy people, for those of you that don’t know who I am – my name is Topher […]
Gender glossary 102: An intro to gender identities
This post, about terminology used to talk about gender and trans folks, is part 2 in our introduction of some of the most common trans and non-binary gender identities both of them written for us by the fabulous blogger Quinn Rhodes. (ze/hir). If you missed part one then check that out too: Gender glossary 101: […]
Gender glossary 101: An intro to trans terminology
As two cis people we have not always fully understood the language that surrounds gender and the transgender and non-binary communities. We have tried to educate ourselves by talking to people and reading around the subject but we know for many cis people it can feel a bit daunting so we thought we would try […]
An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Darkness at Bay
There is a strong lonk between depression and lack of libido. In this fabulous piece by Tabitha Rayne she talks about how prescribing herself an orgasm a day and giving herself time to focus on her sexual self had a positive impact on both her mental health and libido. At one point my OCD was […]
Sex, Lies and Social Distancing by Amy Norton
Has the currently social distancing situation fired up your sex drive or maybe it acted like an unwelcome and very unpleasant cold shower? If so, then be assured you are absolutely not alone. As Amy explains in this piece experiencing low libido is a completely normal reaction to this challenging time. I’m a sex blogger, […]
Why We Should Embrace Furries The Furry Community
Furries can be a kinky bunch, so I decided to introduce them to you today, if you don’t know about them already. For the uninitiated, a furry is a person who imagines themselves or others as anthropomorphic animals – that’s half animal, half human to you and me. Most furries started on this path by […]