Necessary pre-fuck conversations (or ‘how to fuck someone with vaginismus’)
This week we are excited to welcome back Quinn Rhodes (Ze/hir/he/him) with the second in a two part series of posts about vaginismus. This time ze is talking about the conversations you should have with someone with vaginismus before you fuck them or as ze says in the title, how to fuck someone with vaginismus. […]
Ask A Stupid Question
We have all done it; wanted to ask a question but haven’t because in our head the question sounds so fucking stupid and so we were embarrassed to ask it out loud. If you’re like us, you then go somewhere quiet and google your ‘stupid question’ to find a million search results none of which […]
Sex Furniture: How To Use The Liberator Wedge
If you have ever though ‘I’d love some sex furniture’ then today is your luck day! Today we talking about how to use the Liberator Wedge; a foam wedge essentially that’s going to change your sex game! The Wedge Packaging Before we talk about the wedge from Liberator we have to talk about the packaging. […]
BREAKING THE CHAINS OF SEXUAL SHAME
Sexual shame is a hugely common issue for many people. We live in a society that sends shaming messages about bodies and sex constantly so when Violet Grey offered to write us a piece about it including ways in which we can challenge that shame we knew we had to take her up on the […]
Top 10 Most Searched for Kinks and Fetishes
So you have all been lock up in your homes for a significant portion of the year. People have been gardening, reading books, even writing books, decorating their homes, sewing and crafting and searching the internet for all sorts of porn. Wait what? Yes that is right, we don’t need to shy about it. Whilst […]
Sex, body image and breast cancer
This week we are delighted to welcome Julie from Master’s Pleasing Bitch to our blog to talk about the impact of breast cancer on her sex life and body image. This post contains frank talk about breast cancer diagnosis and treatment including mastectomy surgery In 2017 breast cancer accounted for 15% of new cancer cases […]
Staying Connected Through Sex After Having Kids
Everyone who is or has been a parent knows that bringing children into a relationship has a huge impact on lots of things but it can really have an impact on your sexy life. In this piece Alice Queen of Vanilla is the New Kink talks about the ways in which her and her partner […]
Sex, Lies and Social Distancing by Amy Norton
Has the currently social distancing situation fired up your sex drive or maybe it acted like an unwelcome and very unpleasant cold shower? If so, then be assured you are absolutely not alone. As Amy explains in this piece experiencing low libido is a completely normal reaction to this challenging time. I’m a sex blogger, […]
Talking Sex With Mum
This Mother’s Day we invited Adam’s mum to the office to answer your question. Questions about, sex, sexuality and much much more. The result is Adam talking sex with his Mum When we first told people about the idea of ‘talking sex with Adam’s Mum’ the immediate question was ‘why, isn’t that weird? Well, we […]