Period Sex – Getting it on when you are on
For most people born with a womb periods are a regular part of their adult lives. It is something that will turn up most months from their early to mid teens right up until their late 40’s/early 50’s. Sure contraception, pregnancy and other factors can there might be breaks in that cycle but for the […]
Does penis size matter?
The average penis size? Well actually that kind of depends where you live in the world but roughly it is somewhere between 5 and 6 inches long when erect with the average girth being 4 and 5 inches when erect but just how humans come in all shapes and sizes the same is true for […]
Mutual Masturbation – Why you should wank with your partner
Masturbation is something we tend to think of a solitary affair. It is often portrayed as something people do as a result of not having a partner or when a partner is not feeling like having sex. It is a substitute for partnered sex. But that is an inaccurate view. I mean it can be […]
Bullet Vibes – Not just for your clit
Bullet vibes have been a staple of the sex toy industry for many years now. These tiny little bundles of buzzing delight have been marketed at those folks with a clitoris as the ideal little toy to keep in your bedside draw and your hand bag. It is a toy that for many is a […]
How to Navigate Your First Swingers Club Visit
Maybe you’ve always fantasied about going to a swingers club, or maybe the last year of lockdown has made you crave a sexual adventure or two. If you’re keen to get out there when we emerge from the pandemic and clubs reopen, you probably have a few questions. Don’t worry – going to a swing […]
Boost Your Blowjob Game With Butt Play
Looking for new ways to pleasure your penis-owning partner during oral sex? Perhaps it’s time to expand the area you’re stimulating while you’re going down. Tucked just below your partner’s pleasure bits is a potentially unexplored source of great arousal and possibly even new types of orgasms that will take your blow job game to […]
Sex Boundaries – What are they and how to talk about them.
When it comes to any sexual relationship we all have personal boundaries around the things we want/like to do and things we don’t want/like to do. Over times those things may change and evolve as we explore and experience different things but some of them will be firmly set in stone and are never to […]
BDSM relationships: What kinky relationships can teach everyone to do better.
What makes a relationship great is that it works for the people in it. BDSM relationships are no better or worse than vanilla or non kinky relationships but there are some over arching elements of BDSM relationships that centre around developing a positive and healthy dynamic between the people involved that many people could really […]
5 (slightly mad) stay at home Valentine’s day ideas
In fact the title should be 5 (slightly mad) stay at home Valentine’s day ideas for when you have been staying home all year but that seemed a bit wordy. It is the month of love, Valentines day is on Sunday and I am sure you have amazing dates planned with romance and love in […]
Which Type of Non-Monogamy is Right For You?
People often think of monogamy and non-monogamy as a binary choice – you’re either one or the other and there is no middle ground. But I prefer to think of both monogamy and non-monogamy as a spectrum, with tonnes of middle ground and grey areas to play around in. If you think you might be […]