Preparing for Anal Play: What Are Your Hygiene Options?
Let’s talk about preparing for anal play: One of the biggest barriers people encounter to having fun doing “butt stuff” is the idea that anal play is inherently, well, messy. It’s true that it’s impossible to engage in anal play that is 100% feces-free. Even the most poop-free experiences leave trace amounts of fecal matter […]
Anal Play and Solo Sex – Having fun with your bum!
Looking for a fun, safe way to ramp things up this Masturbation Month? If you haven’t tried adding anal play to your solo sex, you’re in luck! Solo anal play entices people for many reasons. From testing the waters in an oft-overlooked erogenous zone to the thrill of engaging in something many consider taboo, even […]
1st Time Pegging? Build Endurance With 4 Easy Exercises
Whether it is your 1st time pegging your partner or you have just started to explore, there’s so much to learn! From the compatibility between different lubes, dildo materials, and condoms (highly recommended for toy cleanliness), to making sure you’re safely graduating your partner’s anal experience, it’s a lot to take in. One thing many […]
SEX & IBS: TO BUTT OR NOT TO BUTT?
Irritable Bowel Syndrome can have a negative impact on your sex life especially when it comes to enjoying anal sex. In this piece Violet Grey offers some thoughts and advice when it comes to exploring anal play with IBS Hi, I’m Violet and I like anal sex. I also live with a condition called Irritable […]
7 Tips for Wearing a Butt Plug All Day
We have noticed that we seem to get quite a lot of traffic from people searching for information about wearing a butt plug out in public. It seems to be a real topic of interest for folks and that maybe there is a lack of information on this subject out there and so we have […]
Beginners Guide To Douching/Enema
Anal douching/enema’s are something we talk about often but as a general rule we find no one knows what they are. So we have put together our beginners guide to anal douching/enema. However if you prefer watching to reading then jump straight to the bottom of this post and watch our video on the subject […]
What is pegging?
Pegging is the reason we got in to the adult industry with ThatPosition back in 2012. It’s something we know well and something we LOVE to talk about and believe it or not pegging is super, super popular. If you don’t know what pegging is, your in the right place to learn. We have […]
3 Pegging Positions You Should Know
Today’s topic is pegging positions. Doggy, Missionary & Cowboy are the 3 main positions for pegging that we enjoy. Each of these positions can be adapted with slight variation in body position or different locations and furniture such as beds or chairs. And if reading is not your thing than jump straight to the bottom […]
5 Common Questions About Prostate Sex
When I’m out at fetish markets I regularly get asked all sorts of questions but some of the most common ones asked revolve around anal and prostate play. What starts as a timidly asked question turns in to a cascade of other related questions people have around anal and I am always more than […]
Anal Sex Golden Rules – Top Tips
Most of us have heard stories that tell of mind blowing orgasms from anal sex. However, for many, the first time trying anal sex is also the last. When considering the discomfort and sometimes sharp pains running through your bum when trying anal for the first time, it’s easy to understand why most people have […]