Talking about anal sex with your partner(s)
You’ve done your research. You’ve bought (or are willing to buy) lube. You’ve practiced on your own ass. Maybe you’ve even bought a toy or three now it is time to start talking about anal sex with your partner(s) and see if they’re into butt stuff. Wondering how to gracefully bring up the subject of […]
Preparing for Anal Play: What Are Your Hygiene Options?
Let’s talk about preparing for anal play: One of the biggest barriers people encounter to having fun doing “butt stuff” is the idea that anal play is inherently, well, messy. It’s true that it’s impossible to engage in anal play that is 100% feces-free. Even the most poop-free experiences leave trace amounts of fecal matter […]
Anal Play and Solo Sex – Having fun with your bum!
Looking for a fun, safe way to ramp things up this Masturbation Month? If you haven’t tried adding anal play to your solo sex, you’re in luck! Solo anal play entices people for many reasons. From testing the waters in an oft-overlooked erogenous zone to the thrill of engaging in something many consider taboo, even […]
Boost Your Blowjob Game With Butt Play
Looking for new ways to pleasure your penis-owning partner during oral sex? Perhaps it’s time to expand the area you’re stimulating while you’re going down. Tucked just below your partner’s pleasure bits is a potentially unexplored source of great arousal and possibly even new types of orgasms that will take your blow job game to […]
Anal Play -5 Tips For Exploring Anal Play
Anal play (sexual activity, either solo or with a partner(s) involving the back passage) can be an exciting if you want to experiment with something new. However, it’s not uncommon to feel daunted by anal play. Let’s face it, most have us have seen or heard of some form of anal play, be it horror […]
First time Anal Sex and What We Learned
The first time I had anal sex l I was 23 When I was in my early 20s, I didn’t think I would ever like anal sex, so it was off the books. When discussing it with my boyfriend not long after we first got together, he was very respectful about it, not pushing things […]
5 ways to use butt plugs to spice things up
Do you have a butt plug but are short on ideas of how to use it? Well we have some suggestions for how you can use butt plugs to spice up your sex life. Everyone has a bum and whilst we acknowledge that anal play is not for everyone, either because of health issues (although […]
Apex – A Butt Plug You Play With
So what is the Apex, well it’s a butt plug you play with, a hybrid anal toy that’s both butt plug and anal beads.Its design is in part peoples request for an anal toy but also because we like both anal plugs and anal beads. Wanting to make a butt plug something more than just […]
SEX & IBS: TO BUTT OR NOT TO BUTT?
Irritable Bowel Syndrome can have a negative impact on your sex life especially when it comes to enjoying anal sex. In this piece Violet Grey offers some thoughts and advice when it comes to exploring anal play with IBS Hi, I’m Violet and I like anal sex. I also live with a condition called Irritable […]
7 Tips for Wearing a Butt Plug All Day
We have noticed that we seem to get quite a lot of traffic from people searching for information about wearing a butt plug out in public. It seems to be a real topic of interest for folks and that maybe there is a lack of information on this subject out there and so we have […]