Anal Play -5 Tips For Exploring Anal Play
Anal play (sexual activity, either solo or with a partner(s) involving the back passage) can be an exciting if you want to experiment with something new. However, it’s not uncommon to feel daunted by anal play. Let’s face it, most have us have seen or heard of some form of anal play, be it horror […]
First time Anal Sex and What We Learned
The first time I had anal sex l I was 23 When I was in my early 20s, I didn’t think I would ever like anal sex, so it was off the books. When discussing it with my boyfriend not long after we first got together, he was very respectful about it, not pushing things […]
5 ways to use butt plugs to spice things up
Do you have a butt plug but are short on ideas of how to use it? Well we have some suggestions for how you can use butt plugs to spice up your sex life. Everyone has a bum and whilst we acknowledge that anal play is not for everyone, either because of health issues (although […]
Apex – A Butt Plug You Play With
So what is the Apex, well it’s a butt plug you play with, a hybrid anal toy that’s both butt plug and anal beads.Its design is in part peoples request for an anal toy but also because we like both anal plugs and anal beads. Wanting to make a butt plug something more than just […]
SEX & IBS: TO BUTT OR NOT TO BUTT?
Irritable Bowel Syndrome can have a negative impact on your sex life especially when it comes to enjoying anal sex. In this piece Violet Grey offers some thoughts and advice when it comes to exploring anal play with IBS Hi, I’m Violet and I like anal sex. I also live with a condition called Irritable […]
7 Tips for Wearing a Butt Plug All Day
We have noticed that we seem to get quite a lot of traffic from people searching for information about wearing a butt plug out in public. It seems to be a real topic of interest for folks and that maybe there is a lack of information on this subject out there and so we have […]
First-Time Strap-on Sex for Vulva Owners
[First, a quick note on terms: I am a queer, cisgender woman and am writing from that perspective. However, I have used the term “vulva-owners” and gender-neutral pronouns in this piece as much as possible in order to be more inclusive in my language. Not everyone who has a vulva is a woman, and not […]
Beginners Guide To Douching/Enema
Anal douching/enema’s are something we talk about often but as a general rule we find no one knows what they are. So we have put together our beginners guide to anal douching/enema. However if you prefer watching to reading then jump straight to the bottom of this post and watch our video on the subject […]
What is pegging?
Pegging is the reason we got in to the adult industry with ThatPosition back in 2012. It’s something we know well and something we LOVE to talk about and believe it or not pegging is super, super popular. If you don’t know what pegging is, your in the right place to learn. We have […]
3 Pegging Positions You Should Know
Today’s topic is pegging positions. Doggy, Missionary & Cowboy are the 3 main positions for pegging that we enjoy. Each of these positions can be adapted with slight variation in body position or different locations and furniture such as beds or chairs. And if reading is not your thing than jump straight to the bottom […]